concern?

concern.. have you ever concern people before...

but sometimes people need no your concern...

your concern is a kind of annoying to him...

but will you stop concerning him if he feels annoying?

if you choose yes.... you are over decent...
if you choose no... you really care him so much...

but why we concern a person?

may be he is a very important people in your heart...
occupy quite a number of space... 

may be you own him something...
is time to help him back...

but the main reason we concern....
we don't want see pain on him...

we want to help him~

we want him to be happy~

we want him to be positive...

because he is the person who moulded the present you...

he is an important people who you sense you should concern...

agree?

GROWN UPS      

Is a phase

That everyone face it

Either already faced

Or going to faced

Recently

I found most people around me already grown up

The mindset starting to be more opened

The acceptance has become wider

The stubborn has become lesser and lesser

Some people think that they are always the Mr. Right

But

Can anyone give the definition of right and wrong

I believe everyone has their own answer

 I have my own-You have your owns too…

There are no exact answer and definition…

Therefore,

Don’t criticise people even though someone act somethings against your principles

You can abrecate

But not by step on people’s back

Talk to the right person is the most rational act

Even you are a politicions

Abraham Lincoln

Who was the best leader on United  State of America

Learn not to criticize even though he was a politicians too..

*(Dale Carnegie basic skill TO HANDLE INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP)

Some how

Things always get bumpy

It wont happen the way you planned and you like

“In life, the first act is always exciting but it is the second act – that’s where the depth comes in”

And I believe

Most people already undergo the second act

And this act is the way we learn the most

Even though it is not easy

But this is what we call LIFE

We might be forced to do somethings against our interst…

But that’s the way that make LIFE meaningful and happiest

That kind joyful feelings are undescribeable

Face the life

YOU will know it

Some day

At some where

With some people around you who concern you the most

 And that’s what I known it as GROWN UPS

RIGHT AND WRONG

RIGHT..
Define it
What does it means to you?

What does it relate to?
What does it link to?
to the LAW
to the MORAL
to the CULTURE
to the RELIGION
to the HUMANITY
or to the BELIEFS

Im doubt on it

WRONG...
What does it means to?
WRONG is juz somethings that against
to the LAW
to the MORAL
to the CULTURE
to the RELIGION
to the HUMANITY
or to the BELIEFS?
NO WAY!!


Is neccessary evil is WRONG behaviour?
HURT people just with a simply aim to survive for self-defence is WRONG?
ABREACTION to release tension and unsatisfication is WRONG?

React through WISE?
NO WAY!!!
Sure, there will be a conflict occur as different people hav different experinces...
NO PEACE
NO TOLERANCE
NO SILENCE
BUT CHAOS
WARS
TO FIGHT for selfish greed
TO FIGHT fot own goodness
Always think they themselves are at the right sites?
FUNNY!!
WE are human...
WE were fooled..
BY something unexplainable creatures or objects
NOTHING IS RIGHT, NOTHING IS WRONG, JUST CAN DO WHICH IS CONSIDERED MORE IMPORTANT...

Searching for a better answer...

LOVE LOVE LOVE

Why people choose to love?
The LOVE I mention is not the love to family
Same as the pathetic love
Off course it wont be the love to friends
But is the love that most people choose
The selfish LOVE
A love to a marriage


Doesn't you feel funny..
You all juz knew each other for few months
Do you understand each other well?
You LOVE by look
Or you LOVE the personaliti
Even you LOVE by personaliti
It dosent mean you understand well about that person

I just duno want to see an occassion
Which we cant talk and play together happily
I dont want to see each other facing an awkward situation
Undeniable we not as mature as we thought
There are many things we still havent face it
We are in the process of learning
Thus, we should give each other some time
To understand each other
HE or SHE might not a sensitive person
HE or SHE might hurt you acidentally


Just 1 more year
I dont want some thing bad happen on us
Just treat each other as ussual
Study together
Have fun together
Without annoying each other feeling
Stay in normal
Enjoy the peace
As I have enjoyed the last five years